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Originally Posted by naomi
i have tried to make her sit or down but she does not listen to a word i say when there is another dog.
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She will not listen because she has already seen the other dog and committed herself to the behaviour BEFORE you got the command in. You need to give the command and show her the distraction before she even sees the other dog. It is all about timing.
You need to avoid her constantly repeating the behaviour. Every time she does she is reinforcing the barking etc.
Take her out on your own if possible (so you are not worked up with the kids etc.) and when you spot a potential problem (eg a dog approaching) give her the command 'leave' and get her attention on you with a treat or toy. Don't let her 'lock on' to the other dog - once she has you are wasting your time.
Try to keep at a distance where she will keep her attention on you and gradually reduce the distance where she will react to other dogs. It may take a bit of time. I would take her to a place where lots of people walk their dogs (always under their control though - you don't want a dog running over to her whilst you are trying to train her).
I would not take her on a walk with 'problem dogs' or for that matter any walk with loads of dogs (especially if they are running free) as you will just be reinforcing her behaviour - she will only want to run and play even more!!!
Imagine if she was a hyper child and you took her to an adventure playground full of other kids what do you think she would do? Do you think the child would want to sit quietly with you and read a book? I don't think so!!
In time she will calm down naturally, but you can help her by doing sensible training with her now.
Just a tip - always do training when you have the time to spend on her, when you are calm and relaxed. If you have a bad training session always end on an easy exercise (like sit) and end on a good note. Don't try and train her when you are dealing with the kids and are stressed out - she will pick up on it and run rings round you and you will end up getting really annoyed with her.
Don't forget she is a teenager and you will always have good/bad days with her - just like any other teenager!!
This article may help you understand her better:
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