Hello all,
I’m new to this board and would like to ask your opinion on my pup’s behaviour, because to be frank today he really freaked me out. Sorry if this is a long post but I know its hard to judge a dog without having seen him, so I’ll try and give as much info as possible.
Monkey is 8 months now and I’ve had him since he was 10 weeks. We went to puppy class, did LOADS of socialisation (i.e. new people, dogs and places every day). Up until about a month ago he was a very confident and gregarious young man – if anything a bit over-eager in his interest in everyone, but hardly ever scared.
Once in a while (maybe once a month) he would bark or try to lunge at someone in the street out of insecurity. There was no particular pattern to it, the people were young, old, male, female and of different ethnicities, all one-off’s. At home, he would typically bark excitedly when he heard someone at the door, but and when I let them in he’d instantly be quiet and accept them with a wagging tail.
For about a month now I have noticed that he is getting increasingly more tense and anxious on walks, especially at night, which is why I make a point of taking him out after dark every day now. From perhaps one barking incident a month we’re now down to one a day – again, no pattern, something just freaks him out. It is always humans as well, he never reacts badly to other dogs, even if they are acting aggressively towards him.
On top of this, we have moved town two weeks ago as I have a new job. We’re staying with a friend until I have my own place, and Monkey has accepted the friend without issues. Out and about, he is quite skittish at the moment, but I put this down to the new place and thought it would pass as soon as he’s settled in.
But: here it comes. Today, my housemate gave his keys to a friend of his to borrow some kitchen equipment. When Monkey heard her at the door he barked as usual and I went outside with him to see who it was. I should have realised then and there that his barking wasn’t excited but hostile, but after a few minutes he settled down with his rawhide, the friend went to potter around the kitchen and I thought it was fine.
Wrong. After about 15 mins she appears in the door to “our” room and asks me a question. We exchange a few sentences when suddenly Monkey (who apparently hadn’t noticed her approaching) jumps to his feet barking, lunges, and actually nips her on the belly!
I quickly jumped in between, shooed him back and to his place and told him to down and stay, which he did. The nip did not leave a mark and the friend apologised for freaking out the dog while I apologised for the dogs inacceptable behaviour – after a lot of mutual apologising she left (with a wary look on Monkey, can’t blame her).
And I must say I’m VERY freaked out just now. It was probably my fault to start with - If I had assumed for one second he would try to bite a person I would not have had him loose around the house in the first place, but he has never reacted like this before. Is this just the effect of the move or the beginning of serious fear aggression? A possessive/territorial thing (no one else has entered our “new” room so far)? Adolescent fear stage? Whatever it is, I need to do something about it – but I understand that depending on the type of aggression there are different ways forward.
I would really appreciate your opinions and thanks for reading this far.
Thanks! F